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Cannot Send e-mails, Does Not Allow Relaying; Fix

By Sudz Kar 23 comments Last updated February 9, 2019

Having problems with sending emails regardless of the recipient via your iPad or another iDevice?  When you send emails, does it always result in the error message “Cannot Send Mail. A copy has been placed in your Outbox. The recipient was rejected by the server because it does not allow relaying.”

If so, you are not alone. Recently, many iPad users complain that their iPad cannot send emails at all! Luckily, this error message usually means that your outgoing mail server settings are just not quite right.

Fortunately for all of us experiencing this issue, it is indeed easily fixed by resetting your credentials for that email account. Here’s all you need to do to fix when your device cannot send e-mails!

Contents

  • Quick Tips 
  • Why is this happening to me?
  • Fixes for iPad Cannot Send Emails
    • Entering Email Account Information Manually?
    • Sometimes It’s Easiest To Reinstall Your Mail Account
    • Try Deleting Email Contents
  • Take a Look at SMTP Settings
    • Step – 1 Settings
    • Step – 2 The Email Account
    • Step – 3 On this next screen tap on Account
    • Step – 4 ADD YOUR ID
    • Step – 5 Check your SMTP Server Settings
    • Step – 6 SMTP SERVER
    • Step – 7 Switch off your iPhone or iPad and try your email again
  • Delete Email Account and Add in Manually
  • For AOL mail accounts
  • Still Not Working?
  • Reader Tips 

Quick Tips 

  • Update your iOS
    • Especially if you see this error message when you try to send an email with iOS 11: “Cannot Send Mail. The message was rejected by the server”
  • Toggle Airplane Mode on and off
  • Check your outgoing mail server settings, and verify that your username and password are listed and correct
    • Don’t forget to check for multiple incoming or outgoing mail server settings. It’s possible that one of them may not have your proper credentials
  • Turn off WiFi and send emails using your cellular data connection
  • Go to Settings > Passwords & Account or Accounts & Passwords (for older iOS, look for Mail or Mail, Contacts, Calendars), then tap Accounts > Tap the Problematic Account > Tap your email address and verify your account information and the SMTP information for incoming and outgoing mail servers
  • Under Outgoing Mail Server SMTP > Primary Server, toggle the Server OFF, then back ON, and fill in BOTH User Name and Password under Outgoing Mail Server. Tap Done to save changes
  • Check the recommended settings for your email account using Apple’s Mail Settings Lookup tool. Verify that these settings match those on your iDevice. If not, update your iDevice manually
  • Delete the problematic email account and then add it back
  • Contact your mail provider about the issue and ask them to verify that you are using the correct settings

Why is this happening to me?

  • When you try to access multiple emails (or email accounts) at the same time
  • Network problems and connection issues
  • The settings of the outgoing mail server, SMTP or the email account’s primary server are incorrect

Fixes for iPad Cannot Send Emails

Entering Email Account Information Manually?

If you set-up your accounts manually, then check that you have a username and password for the INCOMING and OUTGOING mail server settings on your iDevice.

When configuring your accounts manually, you must enter your email account’s username and password twice–once for incoming and again for outgoing.

Sometimes It’s Easiest To Reinstall Your Mail Account

Probably the easiest fix is to delete the troublesome email account and then add it back. This small action often makes all the difference and fixes both small and big problems.

  • Go to Settings > Passwords & Accounts or Accounts & Passwords > Accounts >
  • Tap on the problematic email account and scroll down to the section “Delete Account”  Mail accounts cannot be deleted (iOS), fix
  • Tap on the message “Delete from My iPhone“
  • And then go through the usual process of adding an email account through Settings > Passwords & Accounts > Accounts > Add Account add email Mail account to iPhone or iPad

Try Deleting Email Contents

Sometimes, there is something within the email messages themselves that cause problems.

  • Look at the emails messages that you’re trying to send when this problem started
  • Delete ALL the text, images, attachments, and so forth within the text, including all forwarded threads and message information in an email chain. Remove everything until you have just blank email content
  • Then type in what you want to send and try sending it!
  • If it works, there was something in the content of the email causing the problem

Take a Look at SMTP Settings

Step – 1 Settings

Go to your iPhone’s or iPad’s Settings and choose Accounts & Passwords (for older iOS, look for Mail or Mail, Contacts, Calendars)

Step – 2 The Email Account

Choose the email account that you are having problems with as shown below by tapping on it.Swipe to Delete Mail Not Working on iPhone or iPad?

Step – 3 On this next screen tap on Account

Step – 4 ADD YOUR ID

On this screen, please re-enter your EMAIL ID and Password related to your account and tap Done. Please make sure to use the complete email id, for example, maryXX@gmail.com. Make sure your username and password are entered and correct even if the password is listed as optional.iPad cannot send emails, Does not Allow Relaying

 

Step – 5 Check your SMTP Server Settings

On the Account information screen, Click on SMTP, When you go to the next screen, You should see the SMTP server under the PRIMARY SERVER as “On.”

iPad cannot send emails, Does not Allow Relaying

 

Step – 6 SMTP SERVER

If the SMTP Server is not ON, please tap on the server button and set it ON the next screen. Fill in the optional areas for name and password.

And make sure your username and password are correct and added in the Outgoing Mail server section.

Additionally, make sure that Use SSL is turned on and Authentication is set to Password. Don’t forget to tap Done at the top of the screen to save your changes!

Enter your user id and password for BOTH the outgoing mail server as well as for the incoming mail server.

When you set up most email accounts, you enter your user id and password twice, once for the incoming SMTP Server and again for the outgoing SMTP Server.

There are exceptions to the rule, including Microsoft Exchange and iCloud. Most other ISPs and email providers require you to enter this information twice.

iPad cannot send emails, Does not Allow Relaying

Step – 7 Switch off your iPhone or iPad and try your email again

This should fix the problem related to the error that you are experiencing.

If this does not fix your issue, we suggest that you delete the email account from your device and re-create the email account. If your account is active, you will not lose any emails that you have in your mail folders.

Delete Email Account and Add in Manually

After you remove the account from the default Mail app via Settings > Passwords & Accounts, you need to add it back manually using the Other option on the account selection screen.

Then, input your email account using IMAP settings when prompted (get this information from your email provider.

Once you add your account with these settings, your emails should start to come through.

For AOL mail accounts

  1. Go to Settings> Passwords & Accounts or Accounts & Passwords (or Mail for older iOS) > Accounts > Tap on your AOL mail account from the list
  2. Tap on your AOL email address at the top of the page
  3. Choose SMTP from Account Information
  4. Select SMTP from the SMPT Page
  5. Check that the Server is ON
  6. Verify that the Host Name is smtp.aol.com
  7. Check that your User Name and Password are correct
  8. Set Authentication to Password
  9. Verify the Server Port is 587

Still Not Working?

If your account is still causing issues and you continue to see this error message, follow-up with your email provider and ask them to confirm the settings you are using, including hostname, username, server settings, port information, and how your device authenticates your account (usually your password but could be something else.)

Reader Tips 

  • Even though your Mail server settings for User Name and Password say optional, they are not optional! Make sure you enter your full email address as your username AND your email password
  • One reader discovered that turning off the email’s primary server fixed the problem and all outgoing mail was sent correctly. Another variation iFolks find success with is to turn off the primary server and turn on the individual servers
  • Check the outgoing mail server setting. make sure that your username and password are in there. For iOS 11, go to settings>accounts & passwords>your email account>account>outgoing mail server and tap the server name next to SMTP. Then look at your primary server and make sure your username and password are entered and correct (even if it says that the password is optional!)
  • If your email provider doesn’t allow a secured connection to SMTP,  use your mobile carrier’s SMTP server for outbound email
    • Contact your carrier for that specific information
  • Turn Off Increase Quote Level.  Go to Settings > Mail > Scroll Down to “Increase Quote Level” > Toggle OFF

If you are still experiencing problems, we suggest that you check with your email service provider or with Apple Support.

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Sudz Kar

Obsessed with tech since the early arrival of A/UX on Apple, Sudz (SK) is responsible for the original editorial direction of AppleToolBox. He is based out of Los Angeles, CA.

Sudz specializes in covering all things macOS, having reviewed dozens of OS X and macOS developments over the years.

In a former life, Sudz worked helping Fortune 100 companies with their technology and business transformation aspirations.

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  1. Lynn says

    January 11, 2021 at 12:46 PM

    Emails show up in sent mail but no one is receiving them

    Reply
  2. BMiller says

    December 10, 2020 at 6:59 PM

    Can’t send outgoing emails. Says the user name or password for “SMTP:then my email” is incorrect……. Settings and ok are only options to choose……maddening!!!
    What do you do ??????

    Reply
  3. Lee says

    November 13, 2019 at 2:50 PM

    Thanks for your help. This worked for me !!!

    Reply
  4. Justsomeone says

    June 6, 2019 at 7:35 PM

    I can email 10 other emails but when I reply to a certain email I get this message. So how can my settings be wrong?

    Reply
    • Elizabeth Jones says

      June 7, 2019 at 9:40 AM

      Hi Justsomeone,

      Since you mention this is only happening with one particular email address, it’s likely the problem is on the other end of the email–the recipient’s account rather than your account.

      To double check your settings, just in case:

        Go to Settings > Passwords & Accounts > and tap the email account that shows this message
        Choose Account > Outgoing mail server
        Tap the server name under the setting for Primary Server
        Verify that Primary Server is ON, if not, tap it and toggle it on

      You can also add another server for your outgoing mail server, to do this follow the steps above buy choose Add Server under Other SMTP Servers.

      Get the following information from your email provider or use Apple’s lookup tool:

      1) Hostname for outgoing server (for example, smtp.gmail.com)
      2) Your username
      3) Your account password

      Once you have this info, enter it manually into the option to Add Server…

      Then restart your device and see if you can reply to that problematic email address.

      Reply
  5. Tom Stone says

    March 16, 2019 at 8:24 AM

    I can’t get my email account to work on the iPad. It works fine for my wife’s email.

    I have tried several of the suggested solutions, but no success.

    Please guide me. Since I can’t see my email on this iPad, perhaps you ought to respond to my wife’s account.

    Reply
  6. Susan Skee says

    February 8, 2019 at 1:01 PM

    I had this problem and could not resolve it.

    It turned out there was something in my ‘reply’ email, so something in the email from the original sender, that was causing the problem.

    So after going through all these troubleshooting tips and still experiencing the problem, I deleted all of the original email’s text and it sent without any problem.

    Reply
  7. Robert Bogart says

    November 29, 2018 at 8:58 AM

    My issue is with my iCloud account. I can not put in a user name or password as it is “grayed out”. I have tried using cellular vs wireless, turned the devices on and off and noth8ng works. Same issue exists whether I use my iPhone, iPad or MacBook. Any suggestions?

    Thanks

    Reply
    • SK says

      November 30, 2018 at 9:59 AM

      Bob, Reach out to Apple support and they may be able to help you with this one since it pertains to your iCloud account. You can chat directly with Apple support by using the details in this article.

      Reply
  8. April Donley says

    November 29, 2018 at 5:54 AM

    How do you do this if the outgoing mail server is greyed out. I am using icloud email.

    Reply
  9. Rachel Triplow says

    July 18, 2018 at 3:29 AM

    Thank you!! I deleted the primary server and set up the alternative with a password then it worked for me.

    Reply
  10. Donna Blaylock says

    April 4, 2018 at 2:59 PM

    My outgoing e-mails are intermittently not going to receipients , they all go into outbox with no error and no indication that they are not going out . I have been working with apple customer service for 1 1/2 weeks and three weeks into problem with my outgoing e-mail issue with no satisfaction. They tell me that they are waiting fir their engineer to get back to them . Can’t get to the right person , both senior help persons tell me there is no one above them .
    Very frustrated and I think it is outrageous that I can’t get this resolved .
    Any suggestions on a way to get to the right people ?

    Reply
    • SK says

      April 4, 2018 at 4:45 PM

      Hi Donna,

      We’re very sorry to hear about your problems with your Mail account and emails getting stuck in the outbox without any notice. That’s terrible! As far as Apple Support and the engineering team go, our advice is to be persistent. Apple gives consumers no direct route to its engineers so those senior support team members are the gatekeepers.

      We know its a huge inconvenience but generally, with Apple Support, persistence pays off.

      Sorry, we don’t have better answers for you or a direct path to those right people.

      Hope things get resolved for you soon,

      SK

      Reply
  11. Dave Grainger says

    March 18, 2018 at 9:46 AM

    Since the iOS 11.2.6 update, I cannot use Safari to access my webmail, and secondly, I cannot save JPGs that I receive. Any solutions for this?

    My webmail uses Icewarp on the server / provider side.

    Reply
  12. Miroslav says

    May 15, 2017 at 6:00 AM

    My server rejects additional info as username and password, so after I fill those in it refuses to send. For some reason it gives me pop up to do just that and when I do that it rejects mail.

    Reply
  13. Joanna says

    February 14, 2017 at 2:40 PM

    Same problem, but my iPhone and iPad don’t show SMTP Server any where under the Accounts page. Any idea where this buttom is hiding?

    Reply
    • Elizabeth says

      February 14, 2017 at 3:46 PM

      Hi Joanna,

      Sorry to hear you are having trouble locating your email account’s SMTP Server. What email account are you looking for (i.e. Gmail, yahoo, AOL, outlook, and so forth)? Different email providers have different spots for this.

      Once we have this info., I hope we can help you.

      Be well,

      Liz

      Reply
  14. Dave Bridenbaugh says

    February 3, 2017 at 1:11 PM

    For some reason the “mail, calendar, contact” selection is not listed in my settings. I have Mail.ru and my.com email. I cannot send email out but can receive. I cannot check my password settings. I was trying the above suggestions but don’t have that menu choice.

    Reply
    • Elizabeth says

      February 3, 2017 at 3:13 PM

      Hi Dave,

      If you have updated your iOS, use Settings > Mail. Then Select Accounts. Then under Accounts, tap on the specific email account that’s giving you trouble. Now, you should be into the settings for just that one email account. Go ahead and Tap on your email address (above the toggles for Mail, Contacts, Calendars, and Notes). This opens a new page with your exact account details including Name, Email, Description, Outgoing Mail Server, and at the bottom Advanced.
      Tap on what’s listed under Outgoing Mail Server. See if a primary server is listed as ON. If not, tap this and toggle Server ON. If possible, add in your user ID and password.

      If this didn’t help, go back to the page with your account’s details (the one with toggles for Mail, Contacts, Calendars, Notes.) At the bottom, find Delete Account. Select this and delete the account. Then return to Settings > Mail > Accounts and choose Add Account.

      Apple also has a page to check and verify your email settings. Just put your email address in the search bar and it provides a detailed picture of the settings you need.

      Apple’s Mail Settings LookUp Tool

      Best of Luck!

      Liz

      Reply
  15. Bob McDowell says

    January 31, 2017 at 8:04 AM

    This did not work for me, but in your step 6, I went ahead and filled in the optional areas for name and password and this worked for me. I hope this may help others as well.

    Reply
    • Elizabeth says

      January 31, 2017 at 10:10 AM

      Thank you, Bob for sharing the tip that worked for you!

      cheers,

      Liz

      Reply
  16. Lighttales says

    September 23, 2016 at 4:46 AM

    Great info. Thank you so much!!!

    Reply
  17. Kay orr says

    March 21, 2016 at 6:32 AM

    How to change email pw on iPad. Forgot old one.

    Reply

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